After nearly fifty years of life in India it was a startling and radical culture shock to return to life in America. It was a rude awakening following a completely different life in another culture. For a long time, I felt totally out of place. It was as if I did not belong. The first few months were spent with relatives who were kindness itself to me, but I felt a sense of unrest and instability. I just did not belong.
Through the thoughtful interest of a friend I was introduced to a Home for senior citizens, a Home with a warm Christian atmosphere. The matter of coming here to be a part of this Home was made, and the Lord seemed to assure me it was the correct move. The Lord caused me to realize that I do not have to altogether see the way ahead immediately, but rather trust the One who is the Way. The Care Home complex proved to be a delightful family of friends who warmly welcomed a newcomer. In a comparatively short time I began to feel I did belong, and gladly accepted this as God’s will for me.
The family spirit here is exhilarating as almost everyone is aware of the needs of others, and willing hands are prepared to share the problems of others. Unexpected illnesses and other infirmities are part of life, but especially of seniors. However, here others share the problems and are there to comfort and encourage in practical and loving ways. Also, there are the many activities everyone can participate in and enjoy together. The love of God is clearly manifested in the warm family spirit that exists among all who make the Home their home. Each one here realizes that we have an influence on others to encourage and assist as the Lord directs. To serve others in love is a service for the Lord. Remembering that our days on the earth are limited, there is a sense of urgency in our daily living. The Lord is coming soon and we anticipate the great joy of being Home with Him forever. Then we shall really belong. We thank Him for His constant loving care and provision of a God-honoring Home here and now, as well as eternal life with Christ.
Written by Anne Vanderlaan